Eilene McCabe


Friday, Dec. 14
12-7 p.m.
with family 5-7 p.m.
Saturday, Dec. 15
12-1:30 p.m. prior to the service


1:30 p.m.
Saturday, Dec. 15
Gerth Funeral Chapel


Pauline Cemetery

{March 23, 1927 - Dec. 11, 2018}

Virginia Eilene (Kassahn) McCabe, 91, of Rutledge died Tuesday, December 11, 2018 at Northeast Regional Medical Center in Kirksville.

She was born on March 23, 1927, at home south of Rutledge in Benton Township, in Knox County, Missouri the daughter of John and Ula Arehart Kassahn and was welcomed by sister, Winnie.

Eilene married Hillis McCabe at her parents’ home on July 13, 1947 surrounded by their beautiful flower garden. Hillis preceded her in death on June 4, 2007. To this union three daughters were born.

She is survived by: her daughters and their families, Cheryl and husband Jim Nowell of Gower, MO, and her daughters, Sara (Edward) Gize, Lydia and Alana, and Lori (John) Casteel and Henry; Carol McCabe of Rutledge, children Nick (Kelli) Oldham, Reid and brother due in March, and Valerie Oldham (fiancée Jesse Jarvis and sons Levi and Gunner); Lucinda Guthrie of Trenton, son Jon (Amy), James, Nora Eilene, and Lucille (Lucy); nieces, Janice Kay Duran and Lisa Parrish.

She was preceded in death by her husband; parents; granddaughter Melanie, father-in-law and mother-in-law, Letus and Mildred McCabe; sister and brother-in-law, Winnie and Forrest Parrish; son-in-law, Jack Guthrie; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Leon and Patricia McCabe; and a nephew, Jerry Parrish.

Eilene walked to Millport to attend grade school and when her sister started high school they walked to the Rutledge School, from where she graduated. She was “Baby” in the school play “Bringing Up Baby”. Eilene also played on the girls’ basketball team. She moved to Kansas City, following graduation, to work at Pratte Whitney and then to Ft. Madison to work at Schaefer Pen. When she visited Rutledge, she rode the “Doodle Bug” train. She returned to Rutledge after she married Hillis.

She was a wonderful homemaker – cooking delicious meals for her family. Eilene had a large garden and raised chickens for butchering and made many of her children’s clothing. Eilene sold Avon as a part-time job.

She worked in the “cook shack” at the Irvin Johnston’s Dog and Flea market. When the Methodist Church consolidated with Memphis, she and her good friend Marge Ward came up with the idea of purchasing the building for the Rutledge OES and Masonic Hall. It was from this idea that started the ladies’ 35 year career of managing the “cook shack” to raise funds for this purchase and other non-profit organizations in Rutledge and surrounding communities.

Eilene loved living in the Rutledge community – attending and volunteering for many activities. When her children were young, she was a 4-H leader and an active member of the PTA. One major activity her children remember was the ladies making new curtains for the Rutledge school stage. Eilene sewed vests for riders, flags and horse decorations for the Rutledge Saddle Club. She was a 50 year plus member of the Rutledge Eastern Star Chapter 343, serving as “Worthy Matron” and other offices in the chapter.

She enjoyed spending time with her family – visiting and participating in a lot of fun activities, celebrating birthdays and the holidays together. Her grandchildren and great- grandchildren were the apples of her eye. She was a loving and caring wife, mom, grandmother, sister and sister-in-law who will be sadly missed by her family and friends.

Funeral services will be at 1:30 a.m., Saturday, December 15, 2018 at the Gerth Funeral Chapel in Memphis with Jon Guthrie officiating. Burial will be in the Pauline Cemetery in Rutledge. An Eastern Star service will be performed by the Rutledge Eastern Star Chapter #343.

Memorials are suggested to the Pauline Cemetery.

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  1. Deepest Sympathies to you all from my sister Marilyn and me. We have a ton of memories of Eileen and all of the fun times with 4-H and sleepovers. What a wonderful and kind lady she was. You are in our prayers.

    Comment by Ernestine Byrne on December 12, 2018 at 9:15 pm
  2. Sorry to hear of Eileen passing. I always enjoyed her when we visited. A lovely lady! Our deepest Sympathy to all the family. RIP Eilene.

    Comment by Keith & Marilyn Dunn on December 14, 2018 at 7:55 pm
  3. What a wonderful life that was shared with so many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    Comment by Vanessa and Bill Gaines on December 15, 2018 at 9:06 am
  4. May God help you through this difficult time.Sorry for your loss.

    Comment by BIll & Lori Haldeman on December 15, 2018 at 10:18 am
  5. Sorry that we are unable to attend the service for Eilene. I have many fond memories of Eilene, having grown up in Rutledge as a close friend and neighbor of the Mc Cabes. I am honored to have known three generations of both Hillis and Eilene’s families. Our deepest sympathy to all.

    Comment by Cletus Bergthold & Pat on December 15, 2018 at 11:10 am
  6. That’s a great photo of Eileen and is how I will remember and think of her. We all had many happy times in Rutledge and I always enjoyed seeing and visiting with Eileen over the years.
    We extend our sympathy and are so sorry that we somehow had not even heard of her passing until yesterday.
    Eileen was a fixture, a pillar in the Rutledge community and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.

    Comment by Bob and Angela Neese on December 17, 2018 at 11:15 am

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